Detachment is a privilege held by people who aren’t targets.
"why are you so emotional about this" - unaffected people
"jokes are just jokes! get back in the kitchen you fat bitch before i rape you! just kidding! haha see everything is alright now! im not sexist! take a joke!"
if he thinks rape jokes are funny go on a romantic boat ride with him and leave him in the middle of the fucking ocean to die
me: that is such a cute shirt
me: *looks at price tag*
me: that is the ugliest effing shirt i’ve ever seen